Sunday, January 3, 2010

The Meaning Of Friendship


Life is never perfect. Full of laughs and tears. Life you should treasure with great people around. To share every moment, the ups and downs.

We need family. We need friends.



A friend is

[1] a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard
[2] a person who gives assistance, patron, supporter
[3] a person who is on good terms with another; person who is NOT hostile
[4] a member of the same nation, party, etc

Wikipedia says,

Value that is found in friendship is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:

[1] the tendency to desire what is best for the other
[2] sympathy and empathy
[3] honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one' counterpart
[4] mutual understanding

Dan saya tertanya, adakah sebagai kawan saya ada semua itu? :) Apa yang penting, saya adalah rindu dengan kawan-kawan saya..

Ada beberapa perkara yang boleh kita lakukan untuk menjadi kawan yang baik, yakni;

[1] spend time together
[2] make friends a priority (lepas family la kot kan..)
[3] be there for the good and bad
[4] don't keep source - tak payah la berkira sangat.. buat sajor..
[5] notice the little stuff - one way of being a good friend is to have short, sweet conversations..
[6] focus on the positive - of course focus on your friend's strengths and wonderful qualities.

Most importantly, to be a good friend, forget about the things you wish they were different..

Kawan-kawan.. start your engine~ Let's wii!!!!!

2 thought(s):

khasyikelvin_ said...

having you
as a friend
is
PRICELESS!

Lady said...

u too~ hohohoh~ sudah balik kah?