How Ugly Is The Truth?

Hari Khamis haritu, buat kesekian kalinya me and dear pegi layan movie. Dan movie pilihan adalah The Ugly Truth. Walaupun cite ni dah lama keluar, tapi kitorang ni baru berkesempatan nak tengok. Menarek sangat~ Serious best!! Kelakar tahap dewa~ Jalan cerita, cara pendekatan dan cara attract people adalah sangat bagus. Cerita yang simple tapi penuh makna. Sekurang-kurangnya baik untuk tontonan gadis-gadis.. Sebab banyak menceritakan apa itu lelaki. Eheh. Well.. kalau tengok ni takde la boleh kenal lelaki 100%.. Tapi sekurang-kurangnya it helps to work things out in a relationship between men and women.

Anyway, apa yang dapat disimpulkan adalah:-

[1] Women are simple as well. BUT, i hafta accept that men are simpler. Simpler in their own way. Both men and women have NEEDS. But they don't understand each others need. When they don't communicate, and do not try to understand or compliment each other, the trouble would come. Basically, COMMUNICATION helps a lot!

Why women are simple?

Because, we NEED simple things, eg: We love attention, love, more hugs than kisses, more touches than words. Those things are more valuable than cash. (well.. you can treat us sometimes, but that don't really necessary to me). =)

If we're in grief, frustration, unmotivated or in whatever bad mood, we just NEED a man to listen to whatever we express, give a nod and a hug and a kiss and a touch on our hand (if needed) and most importantly, NEVER ASK A WOMAN BACK. Because a simple question would only be a beginning to a new frustration or we can say, a fight.

SEE?

We're simply simple. Aren't we?

We DON'T really NEED your advice, your effort to take us out from the negative feelings. We don't need that. You men don't hafta think really hard on what should you say, create some quotations ke.. No. You don't hafta. Only an ear and a shoulder would do.

[2] Women always want to know how do men feel about them. So we keep asking on some questions like "Why do you like me?", "What do you like about me?", "She's even prettier thatn me and she likes you too. Why don't you like her?"

Women take that as a competition.

We love to compare ourself with other people, without realizing our good part. So we NEED men to tell that to us. Be a sincere man, an convince us on how do you exactly feel about us.

And a lil reminder to the women attention seeker out there. Don't always repeat the same questions. If you think like asking the same questions all over again, think about iklan burung murai Petronas tu. :D You'll see~

[3] Women LOVE men with a brave heart. Be a man. With a BRAVE heart. Don't let us, the women, tell you what to do. If you like a girl, then, be man enough to tell her how you feel. Stop playing around the bushes. Because sooner or later, you'll see who'll get caught in the middle.



I think I have said what I wanna say. Some points that simply came across my mind. And I think it's a good point to share with you readers. Some may be true and useful, and some may be just among the things that I feel. You can take what ever is good, and use it in your life. May you find the almost perfect guy in your life. No man is perfect. Love will always come to us, whether we know it or not. Love is just another feeling that need to be shared with the people who appreciate you, no matter who you are.

Appreciate + trust + respect = LOVE

Ouh, sebelum terlupa, forget your past and move on. People can't never live a happier life if he is still stucks in the middle of the old miserable life.. What ever it is, don't forget to COMMUNICATE cause communication will keep you well aware of your surroundings..